How do YOU see yourself?

HOW DO YOU SEE YOURSELF?

This is the final installment of the Motivation posts. The first post dealt with YOU and the second dealt with motivating others. This post will venture back into the YOU realm. Because YOU are most important and what YOU do affects others.

Dr. Tony Allesandra said, “Write your own eulogy. Seriously, actually sitting down and writing your own eulogy can be a marvelous exercise in goal-setting. Make it long and detailed. Your eulogy can become your script, telling who you were, what you did, how well you were liked. If you are like most people, you will first list your accomplishments, successes, and positions in organizations. Then you will revise your eulogy, realizing that what you want to be most remembered for is not how many initials you had after your name or how many employees were beneath you on the organization chart.”

This is a great exercise for anyone. After all, great people leave great legacies. You don’t have to be the CEO of a Fortune 500 company, or be in the NFL Hall of Fame. All you have to do is be happy and content with who you are. When you are happy and confident, you become “magnetic.” The Law of Attraction comes into play and good things happen to you and all around you.

How you see yourself and what you have “given back” is most important of all. The exercise listed above helps define who YOU are and motivates you to plan, develop, and accomplish your goals. It helps motivate YOU! When you accomplish this exercise you will learn more about YOU than you thought. It will cause you to look deep and think critically about where you have been, where you are now, and where you are going. It will motivate YOU to strive to meet your own expectations…which are and should be the most stringent.

I challenge you to write your own eulogy and think about where you want to be. Use it to develop your new five year plan. Ask yourself the following questions to get started, “Who am I? What do I do? How do I give back? What purpose do I serve? “

Once you have answered these questions, the exercise will take you to new heights, and motivate you to excel in whatever it is YOU want to.

Josh Brody is the President and CEO of Corporate Guidance Solutions, a consulting firm specializing in helping organizations and individuals realize their potential and enhance their performance.